Its pretty early for as im at the field for paintball training. Usual saturday since im in as.
As we get things ready, a man came up to me to ask permission to play his remote control car. I said ok, then i saw his 3 kids&wife playing with him. Mind u there is only 1 car. Do u see where im getting at?
Given a choice, im sure the wife or even the dad would rather be at home sleeping (its a holiday here) but here they r in the hot sun playing a remote control car.
Just shows, what it takes to survive a marriage or relationship. Sometimes we have to do things we dont like& like it. Support our partner, hang out with his friends, going to training or games with him. Its not so much of doing anything but him seeing her there, makes things better, u can share stories&support each other. The man too has to do the same, when she shops, do her hair or even hang out.
How many of us take the trouble to do this? This little thing that makes such an impact. If he drinks,envourage him to stop, by slowing down, be there when drinks the occasional time with his friends, being there tells him that u care for him. Times word are not enough.. Still times, it falls on deaf ears, we want ppl to change but we dont want to change. Yet we want but we dont give, explains why ppl hace issues.
Looking at this family.. Im impressed& it gives me hope. I pray that she would love me as i am,as i love her as she is, the good,the bad& ugly. Show rather than tell, there is no ego in love folks.
Peace
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