Friday, January 22, 2010

22 days of January

22 days into the year and things are moving and moving and moving. Iddraqi has finally come out of his shell, no more in a world of his own but rather becoming more towards himself. I guess mom did a great job in pushing him out of his shell. As for me, well the work is growing, the organization is being laid out and for once since a long long time, i feel that i am actually making a diffrencence, like there is hope at the end of the tunnel. The last time i guess was when we had Iweb and we had strive so hard to achieve it, we had the lost boyz and we had each other. someone told me once long time ago that no matter how good Maradona was he still needed his team mates. that is so true,you can be the best player but if your team sucks then so would you (C.Ronaldo, i really hope your reading this hahahahah)
the coolest thing was finding a kindered soul in the most unlikely place. A phone call from sarawak and a rendezvous encounter in Penang, all i can say is wow. God sure knows how to set things up. Also this past month, i have met good friends and new sisters, as weird as it sounds, helping others is actually helping me (yup i dont get it too) but it does, as you listen to a problem or help others then somehow your troubles seems to disappear and you feel stronger. There was an issue with a person who could not let go, and i had hope to help them see that there are times you just have to let things go and be strong enough to make the change, though i dont think i did much good in that case. i just pray that it helps. We live in a life that is always entwine with others, community dictates that we evolve and adapt. we must adapt, for that is the purpose of life and we must fight. Dont let guidelines and rules control us, rules are there to guide us but as we evolve we become better, more mature and able to think for ourselves. So fight for what you want, times the pain and hardship bears down on you but remember the finishing line. think of the rewards that awaits you. So fight and keep on fighting. Always remember, what dont kill you, only makes you stronger..
Peace

Friday, January 1, 2010

1st day of 2010

39 minutes till the 1st day of 2010. How are you resolutions coming along? Making progress? Every year, someone some place, started this tradition of making promises on new years, this are mostly more like promises that would never happen (The world's first know slacker)As such, we are now bound by this silly tradition. THe famous one for smokers would be to quit smoking( i never ventured through this road, as i know i cannot walk the path) THus time i would like to make a change, and give out wishes for the new year rather than making  promises i cant keep.

For Sons&Daughters:
>I wish you all a happy new year. Resolve to understand your parents as most times in life, you expect and want them to accept you for who you are but if you dont give them the chance to know than, how would they be able to accept you?
For Fathers&Mothers:
>I wish a happy new year to you: Resolve to be open minded and understanding, you sometimes forget that there was once when you were that age and very resistance to order as well, if you do not want your children to live your mistakes or do things that you did then you should sit down and talk to them. NOPE, not a lecture sitdown about the good and bad of life but rather, talk to them at par, tell them your story. Of  your mistakes and how did it effect you, how did you recover, the lesson's learned from it. Preaching goodness to our children may look good but they (the children) need to know that you are human being too, able to make mistakes and most importantly able to rectify and improve from those mistakes.
For Newly Wed Couples:
>A Happy new year to both of you. A union of marriage is a scared thing.. Resolve to be true to your partner and you, be strong. especially when the trouble clouds blow on your ship and the storm rains down on it. Remember that a union is forever. Be strong, dont take the easy out and give up. It is for more easier to give up but understand, Divorce is never good and a true marriage will stands through the test of time. Marriages will always be tested, be strong and understanding, even if you lose your way and make mistakes, remember that your partner has chosen you for life and you know that by being humble and apologetic will heal the wounds, you know how to win his/her heart the best. Dont be tempted with the other side (affairs) as the grass is always greener on the other side, remember that your partner has accepted you for you BAD habits as you have. Even if you sway and lost to temptation, be strong and honorable enough to make a comeback and win your place again, especially if you are gifted with children, for nothing is worse than a broken home.
For all:
>Happy new year and welcome to 2010. Be strong, be postive and most importantly be humble, we living on borrowed time and we must live behind legacy and justice for all. There is no need for war as we are the only specis that has the ability to improve and think, we are not tigers or lions, we are HUMANS so lets us all act the part. Let us look into the bigger picture. If one of us starts to think of others before ourselves, than we are making a postive step towards a better person and greater world. Remember Micheal Jackson: Man In The Mirror. It is a start for all of us, god has give us another year, lets us all make the best of it, repent, attone for our sins, mistakes and stupididty, make amends to those who have been hurt by our actions. Lets us make this journey together.
HAPPY NEW YEAR ALL!