Friday, January 1, 2010

1st day of 2010

39 minutes till the 1st day of 2010. How are you resolutions coming along? Making progress? Every year, someone some place, started this tradition of making promises on new years, this are mostly more like promises that would never happen (The world's first know slacker)As such, we are now bound by this silly tradition. THe famous one for smokers would be to quit smoking( i never ventured through this road, as i know i cannot walk the path) THus time i would like to make a change, and give out wishes for the new year rather than making  promises i cant keep.

For Sons&Daughters:
>I wish you all a happy new year. Resolve to understand your parents as most times in life, you expect and want them to accept you for who you are but if you dont give them the chance to know than, how would they be able to accept you?
For Fathers&Mothers:
>I wish a happy new year to you: Resolve to be open minded and understanding, you sometimes forget that there was once when you were that age and very resistance to order as well, if you do not want your children to live your mistakes or do things that you did then you should sit down and talk to them. NOPE, not a lecture sitdown about the good and bad of life but rather, talk to them at par, tell them your story. Of  your mistakes and how did it effect you, how did you recover, the lesson's learned from it. Preaching goodness to our children may look good but they (the children) need to know that you are human being too, able to make mistakes and most importantly able to rectify and improve from those mistakes.
For Newly Wed Couples:
>A Happy new year to both of you. A union of marriage is a scared thing.. Resolve to be true to your partner and you, be strong. especially when the trouble clouds blow on your ship and the storm rains down on it. Remember that a union is forever. Be strong, dont take the easy out and give up. It is for more easier to give up but understand, Divorce is never good and a true marriage will stands through the test of time. Marriages will always be tested, be strong and understanding, even if you lose your way and make mistakes, remember that your partner has chosen you for life and you know that by being humble and apologetic will heal the wounds, you know how to win his/her heart the best. Dont be tempted with the other side (affairs) as the grass is always greener on the other side, remember that your partner has accepted you for you BAD habits as you have. Even if you sway and lost to temptation, be strong and honorable enough to make a comeback and win your place again, especially if you are gifted with children, for nothing is worse than a broken home.
For all:
>Happy new year and welcome to 2010. Be strong, be postive and most importantly be humble, we living on borrowed time and we must live behind legacy and justice for all. There is no need for war as we are the only specis that has the ability to improve and think, we are not tigers or lions, we are HUMANS so lets us all act the part. Let us look into the bigger picture. If one of us starts to think of others before ourselves, than we are making a postive step towards a better person and greater world. Remember Micheal Jackson: Man In The Mirror. It is a start for all of us, god has give us another year, lets us all make the best of it, repent, attone for our sins, mistakes and stupididty, make amends to those who have been hurt by our actions. Lets us make this journey together.
HAPPY NEW YEAR ALL!